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Let's
talk about sex! Sex dreams are about the merging of contrasting aspects of
yourself. You need to incorporate certain qualities into your own character. The
specific sex act parallels aspects of yourself that you want to express. More
directly, sex dreams is about sex and your desire for a physical connection.
Abstinence
To
dream that you practice abstinence from drinking, sex or any other sort of
sensual temptation is a warning against being over confidant. You need to
take things more slowly. TOP
Adultery
To
dream that you commit adultery or have an affair, signifies your sexual urges
and desires that are longing to be expressed. Alternatively, it indicates
self-betrayal from your subconscious. You may find yourself entangled in a
situation that is not in your best interest, perhaps even illegal.
To
dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you highlights
your insecurities and your fears of being abandoned. You feel that you are being
taken for granted. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship or
that he or she is being less affectionate. Alternatively, you may feel that you
are not measuring up to the expectations of others. TOP
AIDS
To
dream that you have AIDS indicates that your psychological integrity is being
attacked. You are unable to defend your position in some matter.
To
dream that your mate has AIDS suggests that the relationship may be a
destructive one. TOP
Anal
Sex
To
dream about anal sex represents submission. You may be afraid to yield to the
wants and desires of others. TOP
Bisexual
If
you are not bisexual and dream that you are, then it may indicate some sexual
repression. You may be trying to compensate for your lack of sexual expression.
Alternatively, it may represent general sexual confusion. TOP
Bondage
To
dream that you are in bondage, signifies that aspects of your emotions and/or
character are too tightly controlled or that are repressed. You may be
restricting your need for self-expression or feel that you are a prisoner of
your circumstances.
In
a sexual sense, dreams of bondage represents your desires to be more sexually
submissive or that you have unacknowledged sexual passions. TOP
Breasts
To
see breasts in your dream symbolizes primal nourishment and your need to be
nursed and care for. It represent motherhood, nurturance, and infantile
dependency. Alternatively, breasts represents sexual arousal and raw energy.
Seeing
naked breasts can also denote a feeling of exposure and invasion of privacy. In
particular, for a woman, the dream may indicate anxieties about becoming a
woman/mother. TOP
Brothel
To
dream that you are in a brothel indicates dissatisfaction and deprivation in
your emotional or sexual relationship. Your physical urges need attention.
TOP
Castration
To
dream of a castration signifies your overwhelming fears that you have lost your
virility or feelings of sexual pressure. Alternatively, it represents a lack of
creativity. TOP
Celibacy
To
dream that you are celibate represents your fears of intimacy. You may be trying
to block off your sexual energies. TOP
Chastity
Belt
To
see or wear a chastity belt in your dream signifies your attitudes and feelings
toward sex. Alternatively, the dream may be a metaphor to indicate that
you are being overly protective. Perhaps your way of thinking of outdated. TOP
Condom
To
see a wrapped condom in your dream, represents your one-sided viewpoints. You
are not allowing others to voice their opinions. It also symbolizes sexual
possibilities.
To
see an unwrapped condom in your dream indicates sexual frustration.
Additionally, it may also indicate that you are experiencing some anxiety about
pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases.
To
dream that you or your partner is wearing a condom, suggests that you feel
emotionally protected. TOP
Contraceptive
To
see or use contraceptive in your dream suggests that you are refusing to let
your creativity emerge from beneath the surface. You are holding back some
aspect of yourself. Alternatively, it signifies your anxieties about pregnancy
or sexually transmitted diseases. TOP
Cross-Dressing
To
dream that you or someone is cross-dressing, indicates that you need to express
and acknowledge your masculine side if you are female or your feminine side if
you are a man. TOP
Dominatrix
To
dream that you are a dominatrix, represents your need for power and control.
Alternatively, it suggests that you are experiencing an elevated sense of
spirituality. TOP
Ejaculation
To
dream that you are ejaculating, represents your need for release. You can no
longer contain yourself, either emotionally or sexually. Alternatively, it
signifies a loss of control and power. TOP
Erection
To
dream that you have an erection, symbolizes your creative power and energy. You
want to take action. Alternatively, if you are a man and dream of an erection,
then it suggests a fear of impotence or sexual dysfunction. TOP
Erotica
To
dream of erotica, represents your sexual desires and your sexual appetite. The
dream may also be a result from watching porn, erotic movies or reading erotic
novels.
Dreams
of erotica are common dreams if you are approaching you wedding day. This
may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fianc�. It
also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty
that that may bring. If you are recovering from an injury, surgery, grief or
illness, then you may also experience erotic dreams. The dream may serve to
provide a dramatic reminder of your vitality and liveliness. TOP
Fetishes
To
dream that you have a fetish indicates a lack of maturity or capabilities.
It may also be symbolic of a fear. TOP
Foreplay
To
dream about foreplay indicates your unfulfilled desires and wishes. TOP
Hermaphrodite
To see or dream
that you are a hermaphrodite represents the union of opposites and balance.
TOP
Herpes
To dream that you
or someone has herpes, refers to your sexual anxiety and worries. Perhaps
you have practiced unsafe sex and are expressing your regrets. TOP
Homosexual
To dream that you
are homosexual (but you are not in your waking life), represents a union with
aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and
compassion. If you are un comfortable with homosexuality in your dream,
then it suggests some fears or anxieties about your masculinity (if you are
male) and femininity (if you are female). You may be experiencing some
insecurity in your relations with the opposite sex.
To dream that the
guy you like in real life is gay represents your anxieties and fears that he
won't like you back. If he was gay, then it would be easier to dismiss
your feelings for him. And it would be easier for you to say that you have no
chance with him.
On a side note, it
is common for expectant fathers to have dreams of homosexual encounters.
If you are
homosexual in your waking life, then the dream is simply a reflection of
your own self. TOP
Impotence
To
dream that you are impotent signifies a fear of losing power. Maybe you are
afraid that you won't measure up to a particular person or task in your life. A
more direct interpretation suggest that you may be having problems with sex in
your waking life. TOP
Incest
If
this dream relates to real-life experiences with incest, then you need to seek
professional advice or counseling.
To
dream of incestuous practices signifies erotic desires. It may also be
representative of the union between feminine and masculine aspects of yourself.
You are at a phase in your life where you are not quite a child and not quite an
adult, and thus this dream may be symbolic of the merging of the child and adult
within yourself. Alternatively, if you have been arguing with this family member
and are expressing your desire to make up, then the dream may be trying to
depict forgiveness in an extreme way. TOP
Infidelity
To
dream of infidelity (either by you or someone else) represents issues of
abandonment and neglect in a relationship. Or you are feeling emotionally
confined and need an outlet for your feelings. Alternatively, a dream of
infidelity indicates that you are feeling unsatisfied with your current
relationship. You are harboring guilt over a sexual relationship or you are
looking for a more exotic sex life. TOP
Kiss
To
dream of a kiss denotes love, affection, tranquility, harmony, and contentment.
To see others kissing in your dream suggests that you are too involved in their
personal lives and relationship. You need to give them some space. If the
dream ends just about you are about to kiss someone, indicates
that you are unsure of how he or she really feels about you. You are
looking for some sort of relationship with this person but you are not sure
about how to go about achieving it. If you are heterosexual and you dream that
you are kissing someone of the same sex, then it represents self-acceptance. You
are acknowledging the feminine or masculine side.
To
dream that you are kissing someone's hand signifies respect.
To
dream that you are kissing someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend indicates your
wish to be in a relationship and to experience the energy of love. You may be
sexually acting out and desire to awaken your passion. Alternatively, it
indicates a lack of integrity on your part. If you dream that you are
kissing a stranger, represents acknowledgement and acceptance of the repressed
aspect of yourself.
If
you are kissing a close friend, then it represents your respect and adoration
for your friend. You are seeking some intimate closeness that is lacking in some
waking relationship. It may or may not signify a romantic interest for him or
her.
To
dream of kissing an enemy signifies betrayal, hostility, or reconciliation with
an angry friend. Consider also the saying "this kiss of death". If you
are kissed by a stranger, then your dream is one of self-discovery. You need to
get more acquainted with some aspect of yourself.
Dreaming
of giving or receiving a bloody kiss symbolizes the depth of your passion. You
do not hold back in your relationship and tend to give your full self into
it. TOP
Love
To dream of love
or being in love suggests intense feelings carried over from a waking
relationship. It implies happiness and contentment with what you have and where
you are in life. On the other hand, you may not be getting enough love in your
daily life. We naturally long for the sense to belong and to be accepted.
To see a couple in
love or expressing love to each other indicates much success ahead for you.
To dream that your
friend is in love with you may be one of wish fulfillment. Perhaps you have
developed have developed feelings for your best friend and are wondering how he
or she feels. You are so preoccupied with these thoughts that it is evitable
that it find its way into your dreaming mind. On the other hand, the dream may
also suggests that you have accepted certain qualities of your best best friend
and incorporated into your own character.
To dream that you
are making love in public or in different places, relates to some overt sexual
issue or need. Your dream may be telling you that you need to express
yourself more openly. Alternatively, it represents your perceptions about your
own sexuality in the context of politic and social norms. You may be questioning
your feelings about sex, marriage, love, and gender roles. TOP
Masochism
To
dream about masochism, suggests your need to experience and feel things at an
extreme level. Alternatively, the dream indicates that you are sacrificing
yourself. You feel that you have to suffer for your past mistakes.
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Masturbation
To dream
that you are masturbating represents your unacknowledged and unexpressed sexual
needs/desires. It may also indicate you need to take care of yourself in sensual
or emotional ways which are not necessarily sexual. Or perhaps, you may need to
put forth a little more effort toward some relationship.
To
see others masturbating in your dreams denotes your anxieties and concerns about
your inhibitions. It may also be a reflection that something in your waking life
is not as satisfying as it could be. Keep in mind that this dream may not
necessarily represent sexual inhibitions or satisfaction, but may be
analogous to some situation or relationship. TOP
Naked
To
dream that you are naked denotes the fear of being found out and exposed about
your activities and misjudgment.
To
dream that you suddenly discover your nudity and are trying to cover up
signifies your vulnerability to a situation.
To
see a naked person in your dream and you are disgusted by it signifies some
anxiety about discovering the naked truth about that person or situation. It may
also foretell of an illicit love affairs, loss of prestige and scandalous
activities. On the other hand, if you do not have any problem with another's
nudity, then it implies that you see through people and accept them for who and
what they are.
*For
an in depth analysis, click on Common
Dreams: Naked. TOP
Oral
Sex
To dream
that you are giving or receiving oral sex signifies your willingness to give or
receive pleasure/joy. It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that
you are headed in the right direction in life. The dream may also be a pun
on " talking about sex." Perhaps, you need to communicate with your
mate about your sexual needs and desires. Or you are acting out your sexual
wishes.
To
dream that you are performing oral sex on yourself represents your need for
self-gratification. TOP
Orgasm
To dream
that you are having an orgasm represents an exciting end to something. What have
you just completed in your life? Alternatively, the dream means that you are not
getting enough sex. You need to relieve some of your sexual tensions.
To
dream that you do not achieve orgasm signifies some frustration in your life.
Something is leaving you unfulfilled and unsatisfied. Note that the frustration
may not necessarily be sexually related. TOP
Orgy
To see an orgy in
your dream signifies repressed desires of your own sexuality and passion. Perhaps
you are too conservative in your sex life and need to experiment. It may also
mean that there is some sort of confusion in how and where you distribute your
energies. You may be going into too many directions and as a result, are spread
too thin. TOP
Penis
To
see a penis in your dream signifies sexual energy, power, aggression, and
fertility, especially if the penis is erect. If the penis is flaccid, then it
points to sexual frustration.
To
dream that someone says that saw your penis means that you are dealing with some
sexual matter in a roundabout or indirect way.
To
dream that your penis falls or snaps off implies a loss of power. You feel you
are losing an important part of your identity. If you dream that your penis is
detachable, then it refers to your desire to temporarily escape from the demands of your
waking life.
Dreaming
of seeing a penis of a family member indicates an awkward situation that you are
trying to avoid or overlook.
For a
man to see an exceptionally large penis suggests doubts and anxieties about
sexual performance, drive and libido. For a
woman to dream about a penis symbolizes overt sexuality and raw sexual desires.
TOP
Pervert
To see a pervert
in your dream suggests that you are having issues with closeness in some
relationship. You are trying to keep your distance and avoid from getting hurt.
TOP
Pregnant
To dream that you
are pregnant symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal
life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or
act on it. This may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction,
project or goal.
To dream that you
are pregnant with the baby dying inside of you suggests that a project you had
put a lot of effort into is falling apart and slowly deteriorating. Nothing
works out the way you want it to.
If you are really
pregnant and having this dream, then it represents your anxieties about the
pregnancy. Women in the first trimester of their pregnancy tend to dream
of tiny creatures, fuzzy animals, flowers, fruit and water. In the second
trimester, dreams will reflect your anxieties about being a good mother and
concerns about possible complications with the birth. Dreams of giving birth to
a non-human baby are also common during this period of the pregnancy. Finally,
in the third trimester, dreams consists of your own mother. As your body changes
and grows, dreams of whales, elephants and dinosaurs and other larger animals
may also start appearing at this stage. TOP
Pregnancy
Test
To dream that you
are taking a pregnancy test may be a metaphor for a new phase you are entering
in your life (a new job, relationship, etc.) You may feel that you are being put
to the test as to whether you are prepared or ready for these changes.
Alternatively, this dream may be literal in meaning and address your
anxieties/fears of getting pregnant. TOP
Prostitute
To dream that you
are a prostitute indicates your desires for more sexual freedom/expression and
sexual power. You want to be less inhibited and possibly explore other areas of
sexuality. Your waking principle are too rigid. On a negative side, you
may be harboring feelings of guilt and negative attitudes toward relationships.
You are having difficulties integrating love and sexuality. Alternatively, the
dream may be a metaphor suggesting that you are "prostituting"
yourself in some situation emotionally or morally. Are you selling yourself in
some way?
To dream that you
are with a prostitute, suggests that you are feeling sexually deprived/needy.
Alternatively, you may be feeling that sexual relationships were more simple and
straightforward. TOP
Pubic
Hair
To see pubic hair
in your dream suggests that you are coyly making your sexual feelings known.
TOP
Rape
To
dream that you have been raped suggests a sadistic expression of sexual desire. You
may be expressing an unconscious desire to be violated, conquered, or forced
into forbidden territory. Some women have a desire to be sexually overpowered,
but not hurt. It also indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite sex.
Alternatively, it suggests that you are feeling violated in some way. Something
or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel
that someone or something is being forced upon you. Dreams of rape are also
common for those who were actually raped in their waking life.
To
see a rape being committed in your dream, denotes sexual dysfunction or
uncertainty. TOP
Sadism
To
dream of sadism, indicates repressed anger, often from childhood. You may be
trying to punish yourself for your misdeeds or past actions.
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Sex
To
dream about sex refers to the integration and merging of contrasting aspects of
yourself. It represents psychological completion. You need to be more receptive
and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character.
Consider the nature of the love-making. Was it passionate? Was it slow? Was it
wild? The sex act parallels aspects of yourself that you wish to express. A more
direct interpretation of the dream may be your libido's way of telling you that
it has been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed
sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love. If you are
looking for a place to have sex, then the dream may be analogous to your search
for intimacy and closeness. You want to rekindle some relationship. If you dream
of having sex in a public place, then the dream implies that others are talking
about your private relationship.
To
dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other
suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the
other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that
you are less inhibited sexually. Perhaps you need to bring the same sense of
adventure into your existing relationship.
To
dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate
denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation.
You may feel nervous about exposing yourself and are feeling a
resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and
your ex were together. If you are approaching your wedding date, then is not
uncommon to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than
your intended spouse. This may be due to the intensity of the sexual passion
with your fianc�. It also relates to the new roles that you will be
taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
To
dream that you are having sex with a stranger represents uncertainty about what
is ahead. Alternatively, the dream allows you to experiment freely without
having any hang ups, emotional baggage or preconceived notions associated with a
person you would know. In such a scenario, you are able to let loose and express
your desires, passions and emotions. In particular, if you dream of having sex
with multiple partners at the same time, then it indicates that you are feeling
detached in your personal relationship. You feel that sex is just an act devoid
of any emotion or passion. Perhaps your sex life has become too automated.
To
dream that you are having sex with a friend refers to the closeness you share
with your friend. Because you two share so much between each other and know so
much about each other, the dreaming mind may depict this closeness as sex.
Alternatively, such a dream indicates a level of attraction between you and your
friend, but you are too afraid to act on it. Thus your desires are manifested in
a dream.
If
you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the
same sex, then it represents an expression of greater self love and acceptance.
You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side. The dream
does not necessarily imply homosexual desire.
To
dream that you are having sex with a celebrity indicates your drive to be
successful. You are striving for recognition. Consider what movies you associate
this celebrity with for clues as to where and what you want to achieve success
in.
To
see others having sex in your dream refers to your own desires to be more
adventurous in your own sex life.
To
see your parents having sex in your dream indicate that you are seeing similar
aspects between their relationship and your current relationship. Most cringe at the thought of
your parents having sex, so this dream imagery is really
trying to get your attention. Consider your parents' real life relationship
together and what you can learn from it.
To
dream that you are the opposite sex suggests that you need to
incorporate certain qualities of the opposite sex. Ask yourself how do you feel
being a man or a woman? In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into
your waking life.
Dreaming
that you are watching your girlfriend have sex with someone else suggests that
you are taking a passive role in your sex life. Maybe you feel that you are not
satisfying her. The dream is signaling you to communicate your sexual concerns
and/or desires. Alternatively, the dream may reflect a personal fantasy you
have. TOP
Sex
Tape
To dream that you
are making a sex tape means that you are sexually open to new things. You are
comfortable with your sexuality. If you dream that a sex tape of you has been
stolen or leaked, then it means that you are feeling over-exposed. Perhaps
things are moving too fast or you are not fully comfortable in your
relationship. TOP
Sex
Toy
To see or use a
sex toy in your dream suggests that you are feeling unsatisfied in some area of
your life, which may or may not relate to sex. There is a void in your life.
Alternatively, the dream may be a play on words and that you are not taking sex
seriously. Perhaps you have an immature attitude towards sex. More directly, the
dream indicates your desires for a more gratifying and/or exciting sex
life. TOP
Sexuality
To
dream about your own sexuality signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You
may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively,
it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.
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Sperm
To see sperm in
your dream symbolizes masculinity and/or fertility. It also indicates the
potential for growth and development. TOP
Transsexual
To dream that you
are transsexual symbolizes your anxieties or ambivalence about
masculine/feminine roles or passive/aggressive behavior. You may be reluctant in
dealing with these issues. If you are considering or awaiting transsexual
surgery, then the dream may represent your anxieties and fears about the
surgery, recovery, and life after surgery.
To see a
transsexual in your dream indicates that the feminine and masculine aspects of
your Self has been damaged. You may be unwilling to confront your shadow self.
TOP
Testicles
To see testicles
in your dream symbolize raw energy, power, fertility or sexual drive. The dream
may refer to anxiety about your sexual prowess. Alternatively, it indicates that
you will need a lot of nerve to achieve some task. TOP
Threesome
To dream that you
are involved in a threesome indicates that there is a missing component in your
sex life. Pay attention to the gender of the participants in the threesome. If
mostly female, then the dream implies that the missing component may pertain to
some emotional aspect of sex. If mostly male, then the dream implies that some
physical aspect of sex is lacking. Note that the dream does not necessarily mean that you want a threesome in your
waking life. TOP
Undress
To
dream that you are undressing suggests that you need to reveal your true
feelings and be open about them. Alternatively, it indicates your
connection with your sexuality.
To
see someone undressing indicates that you need to be aware of other people's
feeling. If you are undressing someone else, then it suggests you are trying to
gain a better understanding of that person. TOP.
Vagina
If
you are a woman and you
see your vagina in your dream, then it refers to your femininity and/or attitude
toward sex. Alternatively, dreaming about your vagina means fertility, life and
warmth.
To
see another woman's vagina in your dream signifies your sexual needs or urges.
It may also suggest that a new project or idea is coming to fruition. TOP
Vasectomy
If
you are a man and dream that you have a vasectomy, indicates that you are
expressing some dissatisfaction about your sex life. Alternatively it suggests
some self-doubt or self-image issues. TOP
Venereal
Disease
To
dream that you have a venereal disease, indicates some sort of contamination,
either physical or emotional. You may feel vulnerable in a relationship.
Alternatively, it signifies a fear of sex or an imbalance in sexual energy.
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Virgin
To
dream that you are a virgin symbolizes purity and potential. Note that the dream
may not necessarily mean actual physical virginity, but could also represent
emotional innocence. In particular, if you are not a virgin but dream that you
are one, then it signifies past regret or remorse. You need to stop dwelling on
the past and look toward the future.
To
dream that someone is a virgin, indicates integrity and honesty. You may have an
ideal that you are tying to attain. TOP
Vulva
To
see a vulva in your dream signifies your creative energy. TOP
Wife
Swapping
To dream about
wife swapping suggests that you are in a rut and want to add some spice to your
sex life. You want to be more sexually adventurous. Consider the couple who you
are swapping with for additional significance. TOP
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